We got an email from a listener that is getting ready to go on a 2nd date with a guy she’s really interested in. He invited her to his place so he could cook her dinner. Initially, I thought it was a sweet gesture! She accepted immediately and once she started telling her friends about her plan she was criticized. Her friends were telling her that it’s too soon to go to his place. REALLY? She asked us and all of you for help.
Baltazar obviously took the side of her friends saying that it gives off the wrong vibe. We also got a lot of calls and text messages from you guys expressing your concern for her safety. Most of the women didn’t have a problem with her actually going to his place because it’s 2012! Just because she’s going over there doesn’t mean she’s giving it up.
Honestly, I pretty much assume that every time I go out on a date a guy is going to want the night to end horizontal. That doesn’t mean that’s where it’s going! Females actually have more power in the situation and have the right to do what they want. If two people are going to work it’s just going to happen regardless if she has dinner at his place on the 2nd night or not. That’s just my 2 cents. GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!! And please let us know how it goes.
My favorite call of the day was from Mike in Sacramento. He said, “All guys are dogs! If you want to keep one go slow”.
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